Category Archives: Retirement

Retirement Phases

Wow, after weeks of back and forth over documentation, retirement Phase 1 is COMPLETE.

Phase 2 is a week away….

Phase 3…. that’s out there…

Some down time (do I hear vacation??) is overdue…

In life as in most things it is important to have a plan and to execute that plan. Intentions are great, talk is cheap, execution is the key. Think, plan, execute, and either enjoy the rewards or review what went wrong. There are no guarantees in life, but you will never succeed if you don’t try. Granted you will never fail if you don’t try, but that brings to mind Bob Dylan’s song where he sings, “she knows there is not success like failure, but failure is no success at all.”.

To succeed without adversity is not to grow, that is the definition of luck. Many people take on challenges, come out the other side, never face adversity, and think of themselves as experts. “I’ve done XYZ many times, let me show you how it is done”. It is the unexpected, the adverse, the near disaster that divides the dilitant from the expert. Let’s hope we never have to face that test; I believe many would fail.

For now we are successful in our plan, our endeavor. There has been adversity, but only a mild of a mild inconvenience. I have been successful in most things I have undertaken. I have seldom faced extreme adversity. I hope I never do.

Then there is the issue of planning which by necessity includes risk/reward considerations. But that’s a topic for another day.

 

Ron

Retirement Phase 2. continued

Here we are, Retirement Phase 1 is not complete and we’re well into Retirement Phase 2!

We have a contract to purchase a 2nd home which will become our retirement home. It is large enough to host weekend family get-togethers, yet small enough for the two of us. It is in a community of dense housing, but has a southern exposure on our moderate sized yard. The house is roughly 2500 sq ft, but represents a 70% reduction in real estate taxes. Over time taxes on our current home would eat us alive.

To say that housing has recovered from 2008 is a miss-statement. Housing is booming in the San Francisco Bay Area. Most homes will see multiple offers if they are well located and well priced. In the area we’ve been looking, house prices are increasing about $20,000 a month more or less and a house will sell in about 7 days with multiple offers. This is very good news for owners who saw their equity drop to into negative hundreds of thousands of dollars. Those with ARM mortgages and negative equity had no way to refinance. If they have been able to hold onto their homes, they will be able to refinance or sell.

Short sales are common in this market. People who could not hold on to their homes are forced into a short sale or worse, a foreclosure. For buyers, there are good deals to be had; but (and this is a big but) the lender(s) must be willing to take a loss by selling at a reduced price. If a short sale is listed at $340K (typical in “this” area today), and a buyer offers $395 or $420. The bank can tentatively accept the offer. During the 2-3 months the bank is processing paperwork, the house value will increase, perhaps by $80K. The bank then can come back to the buyer demanding more money. If the new price is still a short sale, the process resets and the lender could counter offer in another 2-3 months! In some cases the short sale will go through without a hitch, but in many cases the price is adjusted upwards, the sale lost, and the house goes into foreclosure.

We chose not to go the short sale route; it is too unpredictable. I’m not saying that a conventional house purchase is predictable, just significantly less risky than a short sale. It’s a time/money trade-off. If you have the time, a short sale could be worth the risk.

In any event and for many tens of thousands of dollars more than I had expected, we are entering Phase 2 of our retirement plan.

Next, Phase 3….

Perspective.

I love what I do (mostly). There are always parts of any job that are not fun, but have to be done, Documentation is one example. Describing how something freshly minted works or how to use it for someone else: boring.

Ah, “the job”. Working is way over-rated. If you define yourself by what you do, you are one sad case. Many who do define themselves in this way (the overachievers in life) find themselves an early grave after a few years of boredom after retirement.

Better: you can define yourself by your relationships, by who you have saved or helped over the years, or by your family; but please do not go in for living vicariously through your children. Perhaps better is to define yourself by your dreams! What do you expect to accomplish? As we age, must our goals age with us?

Still sader is defining yourself by what you own. “He who dies with the most toys, is still dead”. Better to give some of those toys to the living, they can make better use of the “stuff”. That revisits your relationships.

For now I am very much tied (ball-and-chain) to my job. There is no travel of any significance in my immediate future. Sucks, in a way. My premis is that I will be able to “get outta Dodge” soon. Is 30 months soon? I guess that depends on your perspective. A 20 year old would see 30 months as forever ( ~10% of her life). An 80 year old may see 30 months as “tomorrow” (about 3% of one’s life). As Einstein discovered, “it’s all relative”.

So I work. To stay focused, I do not plan vacations. I am focused on how to solve today’s problem, how to advance the “product”. I am a software engineer; every day is different. For those who do not know, I peer into a monitor for long hours and bang on a keyboard and mouse. Booooring. Right? But no. Actually, like most software guys, I am problem solving. Focused on the interconnected pieces of a puzzle I am building. That puzzle and its solution is mostly in my mind with some piece of the solution defined in the structures I’ve hammered out on the keyboard. Mostly the constructs, the great scheme, is etherial; pure creation. It is like playing GOD with ones and zeroes. (religious nuts: that was a dig…)

I will probably never truely unplug. Retirement is not a “getting away from” (Dodge??), but a re-discovery. What really matters to you? Once retired, can you ask that of yourself? What really matters? To You?

Me? I have some inkling. I have long and short term unrealized goals and some future plans. Mostly I will be open to life’s random walk. The goal is not getting from here to there, it is the journey. But most important of all is to have a direction.

So much to discover, to do, to be, still to become! Define yourself by your J. O. B. ?

That’s not me.

Ron

Retirement and Financial Planning

We met with our financial planner last week for the second time. If you are considering retirement, I highly recommend meeting with a financial/retirement planner. It is valuable to have a second opinion on your retirement plans and it goes a long way to providing “domestic tranquility”, i.e. your wilfe will no longer think she will be a “bag lady” after five years after retirement.

The first time we met with Joe (I’ll call him Joe), we discussed our expectation on retirement and discussed our “gozinta” and “gozoutta”, but not at length.

With the “internets”, it is so easy to compile your annual income and expenses on a spreadsheet accurately. After some tweaking and adjusting, I sent our income/expenses to “Joe”. Last week we met with him to go over our “exit plan”.

Joe had put together a presentation of our income and expenses projected into the future. The projection included life expectancy and ran until we “croaked”. The program Joe ran (a monte-carlo simulation) twiddles a significant number of economic future possiblities. This simulation then spits out a number that represents the probability that over your expected lifetime and given variable economic situations, you will not go broke.

Our plan is very likely to succeed. If you have not yet retired, I recommend you meet with a financial/retirement planner to validate your plans or to create a plan if you do not have one!

Not all retirement planners are created equal. Do your homework.

Oh and what’s in it for Joe?  He will be managing our IRA funds when we retire.  Joe will be tracking  our plan, both income and expenses, so we know when/if we are not on track.  I’ll keep track as well.