Category Archives: The Human Experience

Comments about the state of mankind.

What is the biggest misconception people have about life? (from Quora this week)

Anonymous

That there is a prize at the end.

No matter how many points you score during life (going to a fancy school, landing a six-figure salary, marrying a hot chick), we all end up at the same place: dead. The richest man dies just as the poorest woman does. So, think about what you want to spend your lifetime doing.

and

What is one thing you wish you had known at 21?

A long time from now will be now really soon.

Bonus:

We tend to greatly overestimate what we can achieve in the next 10 months and greatly underestimate what we can achieve in the next 10 years.

Jaipur Rajasthan India

Just saw the movie The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel. It’s a fun light-hearted film about older people staying at a hotel in India. The city scenes were impressive and got me thinking about India.

Friends of ours have traveled extensively in India. The extreme poverty and calousness toward the poor is disheartening. In one instance they had to walk over a man who could have been dying on the street, something I would not relish or easliy forget. I had written India off my list of countries to visit for just this reason. But… the city scenes in the film were beautifully shot and made a trip “there” look idylic.

But where is “there”? I missed the beginning of the film and had no idea where it was filmed. The London location is mentioned in the credits, but nothing about India except a long list of credits for “first grip” etc. IMBD to the rescue ( www.imdb.com ). The film was shot in Jaipur India.

The images of Jaipur (google/images) are facinating, though you will quickly identify the “tourist” sights with their tens or hundreds of shapshots. That aside, there appears to be much to recommend Jaipur as one destination in India. Our friends also mentioned that the extreme poverty and roadside trash drops off as you leave the cities. Tentatively I’ll add Jaipur and India to our list of places to live for a while.

Interesting, it is relatively inexpensive to live in a hotel in Jaipur. The first hotel I found on Trip Advisor, Sunder Palace Guest House, looks good. 45 average to poor reviews and 450 good to excellent reviews. Always check the bad reviews, though sometimes they are plants. The price?? $15/day for a couple. That’s $450 a month at the flat daily rate, very inexpensive for hotel accomodations. And the guest photos of the hotel show pride of ownership for the owners. All in all it looks like a good place to stay. It’s not in the city center.

http://www.tripadvisorcom/Hotel_Review-g304555-d657074-Reviews-Sunder_Palace_Guest_House-Jaipur_Rajasthan.html#REVIEWS

Jaipur hosts a number of festivals and has gardens, monuments, and temples: http://www.jaipur.org.uk

Arthur C. Clark and “The three laws”

An IT fellow at work referred to Clark’s 3rd law. I just had to look it up.

This from wikipedia:

Clarke’s Three Laws are three “laws” of prediction formulated by the British writer Arthur C. Clarke. They are:

1.When a distinguished but elderly scientist states that something is possible, he is almost certainly right. When he states that something is impossible, he is very probably wrong.

2.The only way of discovering the limits of the possible is to venture a little way past them into the impossible.

3.Any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic.

Quora, again

I cannot agree more with Joe Harkins below. Travel need not be expensive and a “been there, done that” mentality misses the point that the “there” is constantly in flux. Visit any destination for a few minutes or hours and you have “seen” it, but have you experienced it? My point in travel is not to tick a box, “yeah, I saw that”, but to experience life there (wherever there is). This is akin to re-reading a book you love or enjoyed. A waste of time? To many yes. Is pleasure or knowledge a waste of time. Part of the joy of everyday experience is what we bring to the party and how we change over time. Not only is the “there” constantly in flux, but the “we” who visit “there” are never the same either.

Here’s the quora blurb that got me started:

Joe Harkins, Web Site Developer and Host
Votes by Ashish Joshi, Bob Monroe, Kendall Thorn, Oliver Emberton, and 1144 more.
A few days ago, I encountered someone I’ve known for years. I knew he had recently been to India. I asked what he had seen and done on the trip.

“Well, I was there three weeks and spent $13,000. Mumbai, New Delhi, Hyderabad and, of course, part of a day in Agra to see the Taj Mahal.”

I was shocked. Yes, the cost was a big shock but “seeing the Taj Mahal” as a dropin/dropout was the most shocking of all. He had come to a gourmet feast and eaten a hot dog.

Yes, you can “see” the Taj Mahal in a few hours.

You can “see” New York in 3 days.

You can “do” London in a day, too.

His experience reminded me of something I’d heard before . . . there are tourists and there are travelers. My friend was one of the former.

A few years ago, I spent 3 weeks in Mumbai, New Delhi, Agra and Varansi.

Total cost (aside from the airfare for getting there and back), $900. ($300 a week)

Before going, I researched my itinerary, using the Internet and my local library. The most expensive hotel cost me $35 a night and that was because I contracted pneumonia and felt the need for more comfort while I was being loaded with antibiotics for 5 days.

Most hotels cost me $15 per night or less, and that always included breakfast.

I went from city to city by overnight train, this saving time and money. Everywhere else, within every city, as often as possible, I took public transportation or walked. Lots and lots of walking.

Did I miss anything significant that my friend paid $13K for? I doubt it. In fact I think it was the other way around. I spent 3 days at the Taj, seeing it at sunrise, during the day and again at sunset.

I saw the burning ghats of Varanasi on the Ganges River from a row boat as the sun came up behind my back. In New Delhi I wandered the local market places and rode the amazing new subway / L system, taking one and half days to cover the system.

During that ride I met gypsy families and spent hours under the performers’ tents in the backlot of a traveling Russian circus. On the overnight train to Varanasi I met the owner of a large cigarette company.

Most important of all, I met, and spent most of my time with, people other than hotel staff and tour guides. I did not spend 1-cent or 1-minute in a shop built just to sell tourist junk.

Point? Wherever you travel, go low. Avoid everything that is convenient and expensive.

Brian Holloway Follow up

Holloway is the NFL player who had his home trashed (see prior blog entry).

He held a pot-luck for veterans and suggested that those who had trashed his home come to the pot-luck to “fess up” and help with the party. One parent and teenager attended.

Subsequent to that there are criminal charges against six with more to come.

http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2013/09/26/20709461-six-arrested-following-wild-party-at-ex-nflers-new-york-home?lite

Good. I do believe had the perpetrators attended the pot-luck Holloway may have gone easy on them. That’s less likely now.

I was no angle at 16, but would never have trashed a home for “fun”.

Ron

Brian Holloway

Right. I’d not heard of Brian Holloway either. He’s an X-football player who played for the Patriots and Oakland (I think). He owns a home in New York and lives in Florida most of the time. What is remarkable for Brian is his home in New York was trashed by a 300 strong group of high school party animals.

I don’t know about you, but I’d be furious if I came home after a few months away to find my home trashed. Brian is way more understanding than I would be.

Most interesting, the party-goers used social media to organize the party, invite friends, and record their antics. The house had been broken into, most partygoers probably did not know that. That doesn’t matter really.

So Brian has put the photos taken from social media, posted them, and is asking for help identifying the teenagers. Good for him. Also surprising (well perhaps not) there are a few parents who want to sue Brian for posting photos of their children! Yeah, Brian is the bad guy, their kids are OK. The photos are public property, good luck suing Brian for re-posting them.

Here’s his website: http://helpmesave300.com/

I’ll send the guy a few bucks.

Ron